Gunwitch method 2
Essential guide of proper analysis and Internal dynamics
Well here we are again all.
I suppose the first and best place to start is always with what YOU want out of this manual. At its absolute core what you are about to read is about getting more sex. Well, more appropriate, being the man you need to be to bed the women you want.
You don't want that? You want something else? You maybe wanna live a lifestyle of glamour and glitz, maybe a life full of adoring people and worship from women? Sure that would be nice, but these writings are for a guy to get laid with at leisure, maybe to find a relationship. They certainly are not a way to change your LIFE, but a way to change YOU, so you can walk out your door and start to change your life. Sex with a hot woman in your bed is to blah and bland for you? You already get enough of that? Then this probably isn't for you, stop reading.
Right off I must say as well. This is gonna be rock bottom shit here. Don't bother reading ANY of this if you wont A. give yourself 100% to the material, if you don't like ME or some aspect of my methods and this causes you to wanna argue against me then don't bother. B. If you have what you want already the things I'm gonna ask you to do will be unreasonable, so don't bother. You've got an open mind and are at your end wanting a better sex life but just cant angle it right? Read on.
Most who read this will have read GWM1. So I don't feel I need to introduce myself or talk of the success or time in this field I've had. GWM1 was how I myself pick up and bed women. The incomplete nature of it wasn't on purpose, but merely because through the process I am going to show you here, I had become great with women, desirable to women. Problem was, I didn't know who I was inside that was doing what I was doing. I had just become him. I have gotten no better with women since writing GWM1, I have figured out more of who I am at an intellectual level, and remembered HOW I became him though. The questioning from others about GWM has made me figure out WHO I am inside and remember HOW I got there.
Gotta repeat this from GWM1: One last thing before the lessons begin. Don't mentally argue with this stuff. Whatever you think you know about seduction and women obviously isn't working for you else you wouldn't be staring at this screen at these little black letters in the first place right? SO take in what I say without sceptical critiques and try it out. Worst that can happen is you might just get laid, unlike what you know to be true about women and seduction is doing for you now.
"He who questions his teachings, only learns to ask questions"- ?
Obviously something isn't working in the online seduction community. Only A handful of guys have all the success they want with women. Case in point you are here, not with a woman of your choosing in bed. Not to assume no one is reading this for the hell of it, but many who read this will have read HUNDREDS or posts, dozens of e-books, asked a hundred questions in chat, met guys in real life from the community and maybe even been to seminars, yet usually at best can only get "attention" or company of women not sex at leisure. Surely maybe some of these guys now feel a "part of something" or have built a non seduction community social circle. Men are hanging around all over the place in boards and chats and going to seminars and buying e-books. Mediocre at BEST success of a sexual nature follows, for all but a few. More commonly a guys sexual appeal doesn't go up at all and/or he makes no efforts. In some cases the mans appeal and effort get WORSE.
You were programmed with sexually and socially negative things since birth. You found the seduction community and were told so. Those re-programming you however probably didn't consider or didn't realize the inner beliefs, the processing of the world they were about to replace in you, was no worse than what they were about to replace it with for your sex life. Socially and dignity wise you felt better with the new beliefs, but sex life wise, were still full of hit or miss thoughts and tricks and ideas.
I here in GWM2 will teach you how to deprogram yourself of all that shit. I will do so by showing you why it is "shit". I will be showing you this by appealing to your reason and logic and even showing you how to use reason and logic. Later I will by the same means I used reprogram you much as I did myself before finding amazing success.
Comprehension is a MUST for this to work. Skimming this will be useless. Read each lesson and then read it again, think on it and understand it for the words written, do not filter it through your own perceptions and models of things. Take everything at face value, Understand it and do not argue with it.
As I said you will not find tricks or techniques here, you will not find theory to analyze. You will not find a way of "spinning in to the room" in just the right way so everyone notices you.
Notice the last thing I said. Spinning in to a room just the right way so everyone notices you? Not a really important seeming statement is it?
Why its important though I will illustrate in this, your first tool for deprogramming yourself.
First there are 2 terms you must understand. More important understand the difference between them.
Inference: a logical conclusion from first facts or basic reasoning.
Induction: conclusion is drawn from reasoning based on particular instances. Aka modeling.
FIRST problem arises. Like I said don't argue if what you are doing isn't working, and I am gonna step on about 100,000 toes here but..... Modeling doesn't work ! That's right it doesn't work in self help. Its SELF help, not becoming "like someone else" right off.
More on the above, models of engineering or material science can be improved upon or even re-created by the use of induction or modeling because they are tangible and FULLY understood. SO induction can be used as a logical process because the principles in question are right there and WORK, are understood too an atomic level and can be used to either study and create similar working models, or even improved upon by the particular instances already at work as a place to work from.
Seeing any metaphor? YOU aren't electrical current, you aren't a reactor, you aren't an engine. SHE isn't electrical current or a reactor or engine. SO you see, to take someone else's way of doing it and attempt to come to conclusions is itself a particular instance, as well as the target he uses it on is a particular instance. Bad news. This could be achieved and used to develop a PU model, IF all people weren't VERY different, if we understood every particle and atom and cell of these similar "drones" and as well their experiences all a crossed the board and how they interpreted them. See science just hasn't come that far and people daily become more distant from each other in similarity.
Another problem arises. For a particular man, in particular instances with particular women success will begin to become VERY high. Its seen or even told about by him and then you try to model it. Now being we are so complex and not made of particular instances of like kind, how successful are you about to become doing what he does? Not very.
This can be argued against in the form of "all women think the same though". WRONG, this is where the point is proven. Certainly we have to agree that women do not all think the same as our psyche is shaped by experience and they do not all have the same experiences. Biologically yes and socially yes they can operate on pretty sound basic first facts, but their particular experiences will all be different! Not modeling but inference is again to be used.
Only following inference can be used until you have enough of your own particular instances and "niche markets" of women cornered to begin following induction to tighten it all up. Particular instance will be used to deduce her possible mental outcomes and frames at that point, For NOW we must focus on starting all over a new.
So what are we to do if we cannot use induction now. What are we to do with all the programming we have set in place that was concluded by particular instances of another person? What are we to "use"! Wont it take forever without SOME Tao or method? First of all it is taking forever right now, you are never gonna be ME, or any other guru success wise doing what WE do PU wise. You are on no path of improvement or ascending skills, YOU as you sit doing what you do, if you never did anything different or had a shift of thinking would always be you.
Second of all we are gonna build you a Tao, gonna build you a fuckin method. Not just a method though, not some once posted 5 times applauded 5 times flamed and abandoned by the poster himself writings. I'm talking we are gonna build you from the ground up in to a "GURU", the guru that is YOU, not you attempting to use someone else's particular instances in the spirit of the ugly cousin of inference that is induction.
You are gonna test your willpower. Because from this point on, you use NOTHING you do now in the field on purpose, and stop yourself from using anything you use out of habit when you catch it.
Some idea of how to spin in to a room just the right way Is GONE. Induction is gone for now. It will be used again later, but that's MUCH later. What you do is not getting you what you want. You will cease ALL of it.
I stopped using everything bit by bit. This was probably my FIRST step after rock bottom of not having the success I wanted with any "methods". My own or those of others. To be unable to abandon something harmful you have mentally collected, be it tactic technique or way of thinking that makes you feel powerful yet gives you nothing in return is a HUGE problem. You must in logical reasoning and using inference "start from zero". As starting there is the beginning of understanding truth. When a method doesn't work you aren't "not getting it", if you have read and comprehended it and attempted it, then it doesn't work. So tell the method, "step in my office, cause you're fuckin fired!".
You might be saying "fuck this I cant do that ill just go read some more about what to say or KINO or spinning in to clubs". If so re-read inference VS induction til you understand it is you don't, or quit arguing with it and accept it.
You SURELY are saying, "ok then what the fuck DO I DO!?"
We are gonna use inference here. Basic reasoning from first facts. Its well established we cannot read minds (though some greenPUA claim to nearly be able to, YOU cannot so forget their claims and marketing). We as well can't deduce this all to a science of cells and chemicals yet, and we cant simply model another's approach for the same results. SO we must go on basic first facts.
As a last note I do not want the following to seem as if I claim to be infallible in logic or first facts. Anyone who does claim so should be backed away from by you with one hand on your wallet.
I will now simply lay out an example of using inference as an analysis method in PU.
What is basic FIRST fact we are dealing with of WHO women fuck and who they don't?
Want you to exercise your reasoning of first facts here so don't read the answer til you think about it.
They fuck men they are attracted to and do not fuck men they are repulsed by. Obvious if you had read it right after the question I'm sure. Probably not so with the way you've been thinking lately though and the above space. You might have even said "funny guys" or "guys with confidence" or some other placebo inducing particular instance you've seen or thought once worked if the "matrix really has you" lol.
Ok so we know women fuck guys they are attracted to and do not fuck guys they are repulsed by. Don't think I'm insulting your intelligence here I am going someplace with this.
What is the next use of inference?
What are the basic first facts of what is and is not attractive?
What levels of attraction are there, and which must be met first and foremost?
What "repellants" must be avoided at all cost?
Here I will lay these out with first: biological, second social and then finally "conscious". Each will come with a no no-nonsense and basic of a tip to have the attractant or avoid that repulsor as is possible. We will not be using induction here, only basic first fact. We will also not be using miniscule doubts of the basic first facts. Some things may be regional (not that women in your home of Estonia want a confident man or other such assumptions) or very specific. Starting to see the logic behind this yet? Base facts of attraction used to get you success right away, and as a strong foundation to THEN uses induction on to "tighten up" rather than reverse engineering 2000 particular instances over 5 years?
Biological. First and easiest to get in to. What gets her juices down there flowing? Surely basic first fact is that a woman will have sex with a man she is turned on by if other factors permit or don't repulse. We will work from there.
Attractant: Lean body, surely the same as you first think of fucking a woman who is lean, she will first think of fucking a man who is lean as well. Fat guys ever get laid? Yeah of course. But this is basic first facts that a lean body is more attractive than a fat one, not absolute omnipotence of all possibility but BASIC first fact.
Starting with a basic here for rhythm of reading TOP biological attractant will be saved for last of biological section as it's a bit long in the read.
Repellant: chub, fat, beer gut, whatever you call it. It is not natural til the last 100 years for this condition to befall a human being. Get rid of it.
Attractant: Clear skin. Not evolutionary mumbo jumbo about signaling "good health" here. Basic visual biological appeal. A tan can help with slight problems, medication for festering puss bags on your face.
Repellant : Acne and blemishes of course.
Attractant: Facial looks. This could arguably go under social as its very much an acceptance issue but we will put it here as it biologically motivates her. The tip? Getting lean will improve them, as well as clearing the skin on face if it's a problem, right glasses if you MUST wear them, right facial hair (or none) and right haircut for you facial features, whitening or straightening (or replacement lol) of teeth, colored contact lenses, MUCH can be done with a bit of experimenting or a good stylist.
Repellant: Being totally not her biological type facial wise. Some people will just NOT DIG some people based on their face, though other may find it quite attractive. I mean you mother or sisters a fuckin HOTTIE you still ain't gonna wanna be with a chick that looks like her.
Attractant: Safety with you at a physical threat level. Now we will get to some technique junkie stuff. As the......
Repellant: Fear of a stranger physically hurting them must be dealt with at an active level. Though is a social as well as a conscious thing we will just deal with it here as the fear is of a biological nature. While fear of being hurt emotionally would be conscious and not so deeply ingrained.
How do we deal with it? PaiMai the timeless workhorse of debate and discussion will be explained here to the best of my ability. I will not be getting in to the seductive nature and theory of paimai only the facts here for dealing with fear.
The basic way and theory is to be non threatening. Not in an a-sexual way but in a rapport based way. So the "hover" before the approach, or to walk up in her general area, and pretend to notice something near her and pay quick attention to it, is a great first gesture. For her then to give you eye contact or look at you and you then look at her and get eye contact back and THEN start the initial conversation is golden. To abruptly burst in to her space and begin speaking to her is a major cause of withdraw and/or fear. The intuition of this built in to people socially is VERY strong, this is why many many people only meet mates in the workplace or socially, as this dynamic is taken out of play I theorize. With strangers it is basic first fact.
Not being in the field much or having built an intuition for this may make it SEEM a particular instance or an isolated technique. But it really is a basic first fact that you should be spared from learning and will enhance your success right away making things go a little smoother.
Basic first fact 2 of dealing with fear as well as in rapport Another tip of sorts. Assume rapport is already there with her. You will do the "hover" then ask a few questions of neutral nature. You do not want to assume rapport to quickly as this may confuse her, so a few light questions of perhaps: if she is from the area, what her area was like, then introduction of yourself and getting her name, basic things asked and received. You then will see the first indicator of her interest in you, her asking you a question back, or maybe laughing at something that isn't very funny. THIS is when you begin to assume rapport. Based on congruence "assuming rapport" is a basic first fact in and inside of rapport. How you talk to your friends, family, lovers and co-workers, the people you know is FAR different than how you talk to someone you don't know. The key, the "trick" if you want to call it that is to use the power of similarity to achieve a rapport faster quelling fears of you being someone who may hurt her. You want her at internal levels and dynamic of the situation to see you as someone she knows already. She KNOWS she doesn't, but will feel more comfortable rather than fearful if you see and make the differences go away.
What are the key differences of how you talk to a stranger and how you talk to a known person? Absolute dead center first is you have PRACTICED all your life talking to people you know. SO you must practice practice practice talking to women you do not know in order to achieve this same effect at internal levels we don't even understand.
Second, you are RELAXED. You do not feel you need to prove anything, or that they will walk away and take something you want out of reach, so you are relaxed rather than probing and "fast" in the encounter when it's a "known" vs. a stranger you want something from. Again practice practice practice will relax you, and this tip will help with it as well. Only approach stationary women, women in one spot, not on the move at a brisk pace. This is very much more calm and relaxed of a dynamic, as well as allows for "the hover" to be used and at an internal level gets rid of any "shes taking away what I want" factor that may make you too stressed to assume rapport or create a comfortable environment.
Watch a GREAT car salesman he uses both to quell fears. He waits for the person to fix themselves on a car looking at it (form of the hover at basic levels) and then approaches without a hint of desperation. He does not assume or achieve total rapport however, you can with a woman, as women WANNA get fucked by you and know basically that's what you are there to do. Car buyers do not wanna get "fucked" in the wallet and know that's what he's there for. Still this salesman sets a better dynamic and tone.
What does shitty car salesman do. Well first he puts a guy in a chicken suit (if ya catch my inside joke kudos) out front with a bullhorn looking very desperate. He then as you drive in to the lot gets in your window and in an anxious manner attempts to befriend you.
Think hippy or stoner here, not manic defense attorney.
Finally what do you usually do at a verbal level with strangers you are not in rapport with, that you don't do with "knowns"?
You ask tons of questions about her and volunteer tons of information about you. When with "knowns", you discuss the environment, the things around you or activity you are engaged in. You talk about happenings or people you both know. You can do the same with her in the form of celebrities, music, movies and TV you both watch. Do not volunteer what you watch or listen to or have seen, ask her what she watches listens to or has seen for a better conversation to erupt out of these things that will lead to rapport being assumed.
Basic structure to quell fears of hers.
Hover.
Hi, hello, what's up or hey when she sees you
Questioning of her begins. Introductions are made in between 1st and 2nd or third questions.
Questioning of her stops when you see an indicator of first comfort
Environmental talk begins, something in the environment as your conversation piece.
Engage probe of current events, celebrities shes seen on TV, TV shes watched movies shes seen or music she likes. Carry on convo.
HHQQEE. HQE x2
Memorize it til you get it fluid in field. Basic first fact is these conversations will be chaotic so expect it, adaptability is the only cure for chaos, so practice practice practice.
Eventually your approaches to strangers will become like seeing an old friend, HQE x 2 is the same dynamic. You are near each other, see each other, someone says hi, ya ask what each others been up to, you stop asking questions and talk a bit about the weather and then move on to "happenings" people you both know of or maybe even "happenings" or people you don't know of that you've seen on a screen someplace. Rapport is assumed.
These dynamics will save you MUCH time in dealing with basic first fact, "fear of being hurt by strangers".
Attractant: Last but most important. Women are attracted to men. Or masculinity, all that is a man. Basic first fact, what makes a man a man and woman a woman? Now if you thought that last section was long, get ready, cause this is gonna get LONG. Your inner beliefs, your lifestyle, everything is gonna be in question. I'm gonna get all the internal shit right or at least close to right in you.
"I'm gonna make you boys STRROOONG"-Major Payne
Ok we know a woman is driven by wanting a penis in her vagina to cause pleasure to fuck a man unless there is something wrong with her. Basic first fact of all first fact.
What makes a man a man besides a penis? That is the question that must be answered here to get a working strategy for this first fact.
Testosterone. Inner beliefs of a non feminine nature. View of the world based on being a male and how being that is perceived. Maturity rather than adolescence . Certainly all these things. A man isn't by nature a "beta male AFC fuckin clueless loser" so what is he in nature? To be this natural man is certainly first fact of what a woman wants. How do we even approach this though!? It's certainly not possible you say? Think again.
First on the menu. You will now learn "the sun". You'll understand this much later.
Your life. What is it? What do you do? Who have you become?
You go sit on a pad all day and type keys, or you sit on a telephone all day. You eat a lunch of fried potatoes and seaweed flavored like beef wrapped in enriched whole flour. What scares you daily? You jerk off to other people having sex on a screen. You go to the doctor if you find a mole you didn't see before and worry for a weAk. You want women you are told to, not what you lust for and most desire. You worry what other people think of you in petty matters. You wonder if you punched someone in the face if they'd just stand there and laugh at you (well I'm sure you know primealpha lol).
This does not make for testosterone production. These are not male behaviors. This is not the lifestyle of a natural man. Cavemen got laid with little or no thought ok, basic first fact. It is a deduction, yet a basic first fact as well that cavemen did none of the above.
Now I'm not gonna tell you to quit your job, run off to the mountains and hunt your food with a spear. Though a week or 2 of that could do you wonders I guarantee.
LIFT WEIGHTS. Labor and use of your body, release of endorphins and effects on cortisol, testosterone, insulin and too much to go in to is DIRE. You could take testosterone injections and end up with tits but working the WHOLE body (see Primealphas workout guide) will increase it naturally. People are not meant to be sedentary and especially men are affected by the last 50 years advances in labor and economy inside their bodies. You do not have to build a ton of muscle or workout 5 days a week. Just LIFT SOMETHING other than bags of groceries and do it regularly this will increase testosterone. Not getting you laid immediately by any means. But starting to "create a sun", you'll see what I mean later.
Eat right. Well this isn't possible for most. But drink plenty of water and give an effort to lay off the white stuff though, Breads pastas, rice, sugar and enriched flour are not natural for our system, again too much to go in to. This isn't some crackpot idea, the science backs it up that not eating these things will increase testosterone and natural balances in the body. So really they more restore them to normal. Normal being when men were men, not overfed veal. Both eating right and lifting weights unless you have a weight problem already will keep you lean and attractive looking socially as well as biologically to women.
Take a fuckin risk man. Not even a REAL risk is needed, just get that ticker going with a good old adrenaline and cortisol cocktail now and again. Get in a martial art where you will compete with other men or even have a game of hardcore rugby (more dangerous but just as good), or hell if you want go fight club and start fighting your buddies in the back yard. Go sky diving, bungee jumping, go on a roller coaster, go camping alone in the woods. These kinds of things as well increase testosterone, fear creates it again too much to go in to at a chemical and possible psychological level. Even better they have an immediate effect on your sense of self being a man not a boy, an adventurer or warrior not a "technical support" or "student" guy.
Quit jerking off all the time PLEASE. This is the height of debate with a lot of men. Jerking off to porn was by far not natural or normal, common everyday male behavior up til 20 years ago or less. It still is not natural. Lack of orgasm tells your body it isn't mating, this causes increased testosterone levels to make you more aggressive in finding a mate. Orgasm with a woman on the other hand INCREASES testosterone levels from the excitement.
FUCK WOMEN. Ok that's probably annoying to many of you who cant get laid. But WHO is it exactly you cant get laid by? These ego based desirable makeup and hair and mini skirts with the fitness bodies? Well a good way to go about "moving up" to them is to get a little momentum. As I said orgasm with a woman causes increased testosterone, increased testosterone is your "sun" (hold on its coming up), your "sun" is gonna be the thing all pivots around far as attracting women, more testosterone the better. Not saying you've gotta fuck every fatty and toothless wonder you can find in an alley. But lower your standards a bit for right now ego wise. Go for what turns you on enough you would like to have it in your bed plowing it, not what it would look like on your arm.
See women for what they are, not what others see them as is next and last rule here to make the "sun". You need to figure out your "type" BAD. If you think big tits, blonde hair, ton of makeup in a mini skirt with perfect body. Well you aren't figuring out what you REALLY wanna fuck now are you. That may be exactly it the last one I described. Hell id love to fuck that right now myself. But not as much as "her". "Her" is my 10, my exact lust object, the thing I wanna grab by the hair and ram as hard as I can til we are both spent from exhaustion. Her is my ideal, her face will vary, her body will as well. Hair color a bit here and there too. But she is MINE, she isn't societies rule of what's attractive to me, she isn't what's forced down my throat by the TV or the homosexuals in Hollywood and fashion magazine rooms. She is MINE. THAT'S who I approach, that's who I fuck. You've got a list of crushes, think about them, Celebes, chicks in real life, doesn't matter. Think of them, were they stereotypes? NO they were YOURS. That right there, approaching them and only them once you are less green will complete your "sun". Til then fuck what you can get at all turned on by and approach any woman you'd even entertain fucking, your 10, societies 10, 6s and 7s whores and queens, for practice in this GWM2 thing. You'll know when that natural man is emerging, you will know when its time to ONLY approach your "hers" as a final capper.
Now we will build you "body"
The faulty, unnatural conditioning you have received from society and the seduction community can be deprogrammed, and should be as you use the inference vs. induction/modeling willpower stunt. Willpower should be in use by you to stop thoughts of deducted models of other people now as you read this and are challenged. Willpower will be used to rid yourself of all habits of thought that are faulty when recognized.
THEN they will be replaced by not only the basic first fact way of reasoning but the basic first facts you must understand of what it is to be a natural man in thought and inner core.
I will lay these out. Read them, understand them and take them on as basic first facts of your new inner beliefs. In these I digress from total perfect logic. These are ideals. This is the software here, it need not be perfect and completely accurate. These are your new "models" and ways of thinking. Maybe not all FACT, but they become fact by believing them.
These are:
#1: Women love sex. Unless biologically stunted in her privates or a lesbian she will love sex with men. Ahhh key is being a man, not a boy or feminine. The natural man knows this desire for sex is there and acts on it for mutual gratification. Sex is a natural thing that happens between you and a woman. It is not a battle or conquest. It is animal lust.
#2: Natural mans picture of himself is not as a boy: Soft living and pampering, from womb to coffin we are given. We are saved when we need saving and listened to when we cry. Natural man doesn't have this perception anymore. He thinks "me" he doesn't think he is young or a child or a boy. He sees himself as a man. You are an adult a grown up. Act accordingly. Don't be crying about shit, somebody didn't fuckin drop dead, don't be crying. Don't be hanging on women like they are your mother. There's 500 of em to many to list. Its called not being a PUSSY ass little boy. You get your "sun" these things don't happen as much anyways. Still be aware of thinking like a MAN and an adult, not something weak or helpless.
#3: Other men are not superior to you. Natural man would have none of this. Get your sun in place and it'll come. To offend another man is to possibly have to fight. All it means to offend another man. SO WHAT. You don't giggle when AMOG makes a joke at your expense, he doesn't like that? TOO bad, you are MALE, you can and will compete for respect. People used to like it when you made jokes about yourself? TOO bad, they'll get eye contact from you now, not jokes and you giggling at the floor. You aren't looking for trouble, but you aren't gonna avoid it either less its REAL fuckin dangerous. Even then, that gangbanger with the gun in his waistband who's house you ended up at might just shoot you for being a little wimpy punk ass when you talk about "I'm such a tight ass square white boy". And know that you ain't gonna giggle enough or be passive enough to get out of that basement in el Salvador where you've just landed the lead role in a forced donkey on man sex act. So be a MAN and don't look for trouble OR try to avoid it, especially while its happening. Natural man is no victim. You don't have to be either.
#4: You don't take any shit from anyone with a smile. Usually you wont take any shit at all, but if you are backed in to a corner hands tied and your balls in a vice, you don't grin and bear it, you just bear it. You do this because you have an imaginary audience, this life you are living is the movie, you are the main character. This life is no comedy, you take life seriously when serious situations arise. You are the leading man in every story. You only take the scripts that suit you. You MUST live up to this audience, your entire self is watching. Living anyway or anything else? Pffffffft. That's when you aren't so serious and are just making a cameo appearance as a big time leading man in some stupid comedy. Passing through.
#5: Sexual state. You feel it, you know its there. You SURELY don't think its wrong! You know its natural. Its what she feels in a different way as well. Once the sun has risen, this sexual state will BURN in you, to be obsessed with it would not be unmanly or unnatural. It is your other being. It is in fact from the testosterone a sort of survival persona, at the procreation level. Testosterone will give you this survival mechanism to drive your aggression and persistence in mating and competition with other men.
#6: You're gonna forget about "swingers" and "Tao of Steve" and "Don Juan Demarco" as PU movies, they are now only entertainment. You don't use induction, ESPECIALLY fictional induction. Watch the movie "predator" with Arnold swarzenegger. See the order of masculinity in actions and interactions PU wise. Far as being a male. Who of them would get the best women for what they looked like? Indian tracker guy(little much, pretty much below Arnold because of it) and Arnold (right way to be), 2 black guys (both pretty standard), Jesse Ventura and grenade launcher guy (amog/AFC types looking to impress and cackling over stupid jokes), guy with glasses ALWAYS giggling around and being a goof. Predator kills them in roughly that order for sport. Also watch the scene with the Indian tracker, he gets fed up, throws off all his shit takes out his knife and waits on the path for the predator tired of being hunted. If you cant see that as a real tearjerker lol, you are WAY too conditioned by this passive society.
I only mention this as off the wall as it sounds as I remember about 87 or so when this came out. After having watched it in a deep zone in, really identifying with the characters was the first time I felt like a man in my whole life. Have MALE, masculine role models. Yeah watch Seinfeld or MASH and laugh and enjoy it, but don't think just cause Jerry and George have a new woman written in each week they are good role-models. Not saying a guy who acts like that cannot get laid, just that he wont get laid as much or by the women he really wants.
#7: You know women and men are not from different planets. Socially which we will get to later there can be variables. But basic first fact is that biologically men and women are MUCH alike. Any thoughts of "women think different from men" are squashed out instantly. You conform to the bare minimum of social differences and her conditioning to have the mutual sexual experience. You do not harp on the differences of men and women in your mind. People walking around the planet, living eating and fucking. Humans from earth. Not creatures from Mars and Venus cast in some battle of wills. That's book selling talk, not reality.
Read these, know these. Comprehend them til you get a certain sense of satisfaction and take them away with you. You may need to develop your sun before the body can begin to shape up though.
HAH!, FINALLY we come to the sun and body business.
The finale. Your shadow.
A metaphor:
You see the sun casts the power and energy, the testosterone and sense of power thrusts a light out hitting your body, your body (the beliefs and ideals you hold and that are intellectualized) will be the position you take to allow the sun to cast a shadow.
You see you can have a BRIGHT burning sun, just right all perfect. But if you are standing sideways you wont cast the full shadow.
Basically you can have all the chemistry right from your lifestyle, but if you are still thinking like a fuckin moron about hyper analytical concepts and dynamics between you and her, or doing stupid behaviors that are the anathema of your "sun" because you believe they are the right way to think? You'll cast a half ass shadow, or persona.
For in depth shadow example coming from the same sun and body, Look at GWM1 of course.
But in general if you take the mindsets (body section) and place them in direct correlation with the suns beams (the chemistry and testosterone) the shadow you cast will be PERFECT. Or about 90% but hey nobodies perfect. Anyone who says they can make you so should be put on a cult watch list. Its eating the fruit not trying to get the vitamins out of it in pill form again. You simply must relax and enjoy being a natural man, enjoy the feelings of being a man, and enjoy strong mindsets and ideals that are in synch with it.
You'll move more confidently in body, you'll look people in the eyes when you speak and not break eye contact first, you'll touch women when it feels right, you'll stand closer to her and get even closer as she warms up, you'll talk in a better voice, slower more calm and sexy, you'll party harder and have a good time cause you wont have underlying fear of what others will think if you let loose, you'll deal with drama better, you'll deal with loss and rejection better. You'll have to jerk off 3 times in a row to get writing like this done because sitting in one place with no stimulation but your own mind and thoughts for this long will drive you CRAZY! Yet aside from that you will think clearer under pressure, which is much more important than being able to write a bunch of shit like this in the real world. In all you just become one sexy motherfucker. A MAN.
A natural man just gets laid no matter what right? Not always. Problems come up. Of the social kind basically repellants that must be quelled, and a few attractants that can be helped or used to advantage. Surely society and fear of judgment can bias a woman's determination to have sex with you or not. Only the most outstanding of minds can usually totally drop the social cognition, or the perception of what others will think of any given action. We must at least "pass" the repulsors, and maybe use the attractants to social advantage.
Now we will explore them. Please remember as well I am in north America, and watch American TV, movies and media. Some of these may surely not fit for your region. As well take note that none of these factors will really get you laid all on their own, you must have the biological attractants in place, THEN these will supplement you as attractants, or stop you cold in the case of repulsors.
Attractant: Height. This may at first glance appear a biological attractant I've misplaced. It is in fact not . Height is a social and never biological attractant. Proof? Well how is height gauged? Against other heights of course. If ALL men shrunk 5 inches tomorrow there would be no decline in sexual activity amongst the human species (if we weren't aware of it of course and scrambling WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED!?). You see but if ALL men gained 30 lbs of body fat sexual activity would decrease. Therefore it is a social not biological drive as it is judged against other people, NOT an instant biological fact.
What to do to with it? Surely a crowd setting is an asset if you are taller as you can have a ruler for her to gauge you against.
Repellant: Short to Average height? Stay away from the tall guys. When you cut through crowds of people pick a group that is shorter to cut through for a better ruler. Buy some boots to get a bit above average height,. Unless hand selected to be shorter than you, a wingman or party scene of guys is not ideal either.
Attractant: GREAT grooming. Not just being clean and non smelly or unkempt. I mean the same things I talked about in the facial looks category. Properly tailored or fitting clothes to accentuate your best assets, right beard and hair combos, right no hair or beard combos, clean nails and good skin. Socially acceptable grooming of the highest degree.
Repellant: POOR grooming. Should be obvious but don't be all fucked up looking. Going from first basic facts you can watch television and see what socially acceptable grooming is on a man. Do not use induction here as you have NO idea what looks good. You may as I seen on MTV think "I don't want my hair all spiky" so you paste it down with grease to both sides. Do not do this. Do not wear big coke bottle glasses cause "nerd is in and different". A Mohawk and 25 gold chains when a woman uttered near a clueless man "Mr.T is sexy" has probably happened. Get with it, wear normal human males socially acceptable styles, haircuts and accessories. Watch one episode of ANYTHING but drew Carey show or M.A.S.H ilk , and you'll find something reasonable. Cut the hair out of your nose that hangs, and wash your balls. Your hirsute is probably not gonna be a big attractant for her, and will probably repel her, so tone it down.
Attractant: Style. What I mean here is an offshoot of the above. Same deal be IN STYLE somewhat for your region and targets. Only MORE. Peacocking is no big secret so ill talk about it. In a setting such as a club or bar where style and standing out can "cut through the chaos" and get you noticed it is a great social attractant.
Thing is, use inference not induction. DO NOT wear pink leather pants cause you seen some guy get laid wearing them. You are a redhead with pale skin, it'll look like "strawberry quik" let out their fuckin mixing brush for a night on the town. Have common sense and do something congruent yet noticeable and "standoutish" on YOU. I myself have worn leather vest and ass-less chaps, kidding about the ass-less chaps. I will wear leather vest with tight white under tank top for a shirt with some jewelry . Kind of bland for some scenes I'm sure, but I'm in a smaller town where this is HUGE peacocking. Use discretion. Of course being in a niche market AND with creative enough garb is a GREAT social attractant/get you noticed deal. Example: At a western party everyone is in traditional country western multi colored garb. You are in all black with black overcoat all western style. Underneath you reveal much the same. You are "in" niche wise as it is western wear, as well as standing out for being different.
Repellant: Being socially/style wise "OUT". I forget who wrote it but I seen this example someplace else, tell me who you are and ill give you credit. You are in khakis and a polo shirt with leather loafers? It is a gothic style rave dance. Enough said. No chick wants to go home with the 90210 reject when she wants some kind of vampire wanna be.
Attractant: Isolation in conjunction with biological factors. Her fuckin friends. Them damn people watching all over the place she used to know. Things like this raise her social conditioning. No woman wants to be thought of as a slut. Rapport is harder to obtain when her focus is off of you and on reading everyone in the places minds with her imagination. So the less eyes on you from first basic facts, the better. First basic facts 2. She is not going to have sex with you in public view, FULL isolation is a must for a sexual attempt. From the start to deal with these problems arising you can approach lone women in department stores or use many social dynamics methods (gone FAR enough in to detail on FS already) in clubs to get in with her group and isolate her from the group. Very technical issue. Suffice to say I recommend approaching LONE women in non night club settings. Anyplace else is a better bet.
Repellant: All eyes on you/her social conditioning not doing the biological points and speaking to her and/or her friends or close "knowns" right there with no social attractants in place. Basic stuff. This is the "BLOWN OUT" repellant though, This is the one you hear the horror rejection stories from guys because of. Come up stinking like a cat terd and talking to her in front of her friends! You must LOVE rejections.
Attractant: Similar values or ideas.
Repellant: Opposite values or ideas. This is "social rapport" where as the biological was "fear based quelling" rapport techniques. Basic social rapport is picking your battles. People only argue and fight and butt heads then end up fucking in the movies and camp trailers parked on campground spaces as a first home. Any other time this "opposites attract" business is bullshit fictional induction based seduction theory. Simple, Social attractants are being "liked" and accepted, people like people like them and accept those with similar values. This may be incredibly hard to swallow as its probably never been written anyplace before. It hasn't in self help because it isn't sexy enough to sell a coffee cup, much less a John Grey 1000 dollar spectacular Caribbean weekend. He's gotta make up something more controversial to your mental frames to say.
Unless she is going against your core beliefs don't start a whole thing. Even then debate skills and diplomatic skills are in order, not a blow up or cuss out. She says she loves Eminem the rapper and you think he's a bitch mouth little asshole, well, you ain't got something nice to say don't say it at all. Change the subject.
Repellant: Verbalizing sexual things. Or pick up lines or lewd behavior. INSTANT turning on of her social conditioning to a factor of 10. Besides doing so will "let it out" in a way as a natural sexual man. You wanna be that "subtle sexy man" women try to verbalize in 3 words as everything I've written here as "what they desire". You don't wanna be the guy who lets it all out with words and behaviors of lewd and immature nature and disposition and has nothing left to project out. Its like laying down flat on the ground and humping your own shadow, nothing left to project, you are just fucking yourself.
MANY MANY MANY more social repulsors out there. Too many to list and go in depth on. You can use your inference skills on these remaining list of obvious basics as well as more in the future. CAREFULLY however to use inference on any new problem not induction. Only once the basic conclusion from first facts has been drawn and applied with success do you being to deduce anything. Some conscious dead set things she thinks outright as repellants or attractants:
Why is digging in ones anus or picking ones nose and wiping it on their shirt in front of a woman a social and/or biological repulsion as rationalized by her?
Goldiggers are repulsed by what at an adamant conscious level?
All women are repulsed by hobos, bums or transients as what opposite?
Rock star groupies are attracted by what at a conscious adamant level?
Persistence works on what type of personality? What do they have trouble saying?
Persistence fails on what type of personality? What do they get angry when made to say rather than say it?
Well I hope this has been a helpful guide. The MAIN thing was the enlightenment of your mind as my attempt. The use of a proper scientific rather than wild method of analysis has long been absent. My goal was to instruct you in some fundamentals of attraction and inner game I've come to understand. As well as, give you reasonable examples of how this method of analysis could become a fundamental tool for you in all first basic facts. Surely induction can be used once you yourself have experienced results and failures from a particular instance of like kind many times over. ONLY then is it rational to attempt in anything as complicated as 2 humans interacting. Yet with inference it is made quite simple.
By the way for the science nutts out there, NO I'm not claiming to have invented this way of analysis. I've seen it in several scientific methods as well as several psychological texts of the older pre self help schools. Also I think Einstein used something similar in the theory of relativity coming to be, only starting from 0 rather than basic first facts, unless you suppose he started out knowing there are numbers which is inferred. It went a bit over my head but I got the gist of it. I figure if its good enough for him to use in creating a bomb to kill hundreds of thousands, then harnessed by a dumb hillbilly like me can easily be adapted to help guys get their pecker wet, now get out there and start fuckin!
"Make the ho say no"
Gunwitch.
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